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5.3.2 Relinquished for Adoption


The term 'relinquished child' is used to describe a child, usually a baby or at the pre-birth stage, whose parents are making the choice of adoption for the child.

This chapter deals with the first stages of the adoption process for relinquished children, whilst signposting other key processes that should be progressed and which are expected for any child who is Accommodated or where the plan is for adoption. It also summarises the counselling and support that will be made available to the birth family in these circumstances. Once a decision is made and consent is formally given, although not irreversible, the adoption process is as for any other child.

Therefore, this chapter should be read in conjunction with the following related guidance and procedures:


Statutory Guidance on Adoption (July 2013)

ADCS, Good Practice Guidance for Adoption Agencies and CAFCASS: Children Relinquished for Adoption


Fostering for Adoption and Concurrent Planning Procedure

Placement For Adoption Procedure

Court Reports in Placement Order Applications and in Adoption/Special Guardianship Guidance


Section 5, Consent and Competency was updated in April 2019 to include additional information on parental capacity to consent, in line with High Court case-law.


  1. Introduction
  2. Referral
  3. Counselling
  4. The Birth Father
  5. Consent and Competency
  6. Decision of the Local Authority
  7. If Parent(s) Withdraw Consent or Change Their Plans
  8. Adoption Panel
  9. CAFCASS - Including Relevant Forms

1. Introduction

Cambridgeshire County Council has a statutory duty to respond to any request from a parent or guardian for their child to be placed for adoption, and a separate process to progress this, at least in the initial stages, outside of the Care Proceedings process is established in Part 3 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002.

It will be important to ascertain the reasons why the mother sees the best interest for her child in this way and to sensitively explore this through a counselling process (see Section 3, Counselling).

Throughout the process it will remain important:

  • That the child's welfare and best interests remains paramount;
  • To ensure there is minimal delay in securing the child's permanent future plan;
  • Referrals to CAFCASS and the Adoption Service and, if required, obtaining legal advice and completion of all necessary documentation are undertaken promptly;
  • That effective counselling is offered to the parent(s) with regard to the decision; and
    • Clear consideration is given to the parent(s) capacity and competency to make the decision;
    • The parent(s) are fully aware of their rights and options throughout the process with regard to the child;
  • That the social worker is in contact with the parent(s) for as long as possible to 'get to know' them so as to be able to provide information for the child later in their life.

2. Referral

Referrals must be dealt with promptly. Requests may be self referrals or come from a GP, Midwife, school, other health professional or family member, etc.

All referrals will be received by the Contact Centre and, provided there are no immediate safeguarding issues, would be passed direct to the local Assessment Team.

As much information as possible should be taken at this initial stage about the parent(s) and their circumstances, but must be balanced with a need for sensitivity and an understanding that key areas will be dealt with through the counselling process (see Section 3, Counselling).

3. Counselling

Counselling should be undertaken as promptly as possible following the referral, by a social worker with knowledge and skills in adoption, and include a discussion about the issues adoption brings for both the parent(s) and the child.

3.1 Assessing the Parent(s)

The practitioner counselling the parent should ensure that, in relation to the child, they:

  • Understand the reason(s) why the parent(s) are considering adoption;
  • Consider their general situation and circumstances;
  • Establish the position of the birth father (see Section 4, Birth Father).

In relation to the parent(s), they should ensure they:

  • Are aware of any communication requirements:
    • As a result of a physical or learning disability;
    • English being a second language.
  • Are aware of any issues around literacy skills;
  • Consider both parents' competency to make decisions (see also Section 5, Consent and Competency);
  • Identify any cultural issues;
  • Know of any physical or learning disabilities that are impacting upon the circumstances;
  • Recognise any immigration concerns;
  • Are alert to the possibility of coercion, both within the parents' relationship and as undue pressure to pursue adoption. Further, the worker should, where relevant to the circumstances, consider possible child (and adult) sexual exploitation and trafficking/slavery issues;
  • Identify any other issues that may appear relevant.

3.2 Options and Alternatives to Adoption

Counselling should ensure that the parent has considered the options:

  • Staying with them, with support as required;
  • Where the baby and mother are accommodated with foster carers, training and support to care for the baby and mother to help her overcome any anxiety and develop her parenting skills and confidence so that she is able to care for the child;
  • Short-term foster care, with the aim of returning the child with support;
  • Placement within the child's wider family (perhaps with a Child Arrangements Order);
  • Placement for adoption.

Important note: it is not mandatory, or a requirement, that family relatives are informed of the child's birth or a proposed plan of adoption. In considering this, the social worker should discuss with the parent(s) the likely views of the extended family (grandparents, siblings etc.) and the consequences of them both subsequently 'knowing' or 'not knowing' of the child's birth and plans for adoption.

3.3 Counselling About Adoption

Counselling the parent(s) should include providing information about adoption and gleaning information that might be relevant for the child:

  • The implications of adoption as being life-long for the child and the birth family / parents, (see Section 67 Adoption and Children Act 2002);
  • The legal consequences of consenting to a placement for adoption (Section 19); advance consent to a future adoption order (Section 20); the subsequent withdrawal of these consents; the legal effect of adoption itself; the option of indicating they do not want to be involved in future proceedings once Sections 19 and 20 have been completed;
  • The issue of contact, especially contact after the placement for adoption has been made;
  • The need for the Local Authority to provide a 'Later Life Letter' and Life Story Work for the child and to involve the parent(s) in assisting with this (providing information, photos etc.);
  • Information from the parent about any known health issues/family medical history within their family that might be relevant to the child - both physical, mental and emotional;
  • Whether/how the parent(s) want to be involved in a matching process and in meeting the adopters;
  • Information about the rights of the child to obtain information about their birth parents once they reach 18 years. and the possible implications of this for them as the parent;
  • The role of CAFCASS in ensuring consent is provided unconditionally and that they have a full understanding;
  • The availability of independent counselling from the Birth Relative Outreach Worker, information and support to the parent(s) and their family;
  • Provision of written information about the adoption process.

4. The Birth Father

If he does not hold Parental Responsibility, the birth father is not entitled to provide consent to a placement for adoption.

Where parents were married at the time of the child's birth, both have parental responsibility. If the parents are not married, the social worker should check whether the father has acquired Parental Responsibility as a result of being named on the child's birth certificate.

The law does not force a mother to divulge the identity of a father who does not have Parental Responsibility and the legislation does not impose a duty to make enquiries of a father without Parental Responsibility, or his family.

The mother may be reluctant to name the father, but it is important to gather as much information about him as possible, not least for the child in later life. The social worker should seek, if possible, to obtain the father's identity from the birth mother, including:

  • His address;
  • Any known wishes or feelings;
  • Whether he has, or is planning to seek Parental Responsibility;
  • If Parental Responsibility is acquired, his potential rights and any part he may wish to play in the process.

4.1 Involving the Birth Father Without Parental Responsibility

Whilst there is no duty on a Local Authority to make enquiries of a father without Parental Responsibility, or his family, this may be in the best interests of the child.

Where the identity of the birth father is known, the social worker, in discussion with their manager (and with the explicit consent of the mother), should agree if it is practicable and consistent with the child's welfare to provide him with information and counselling and to ascertain whether he wishes to obtain Parental Responsibility and /or Child Arrangements Order.

This decision must balance:

  • The principle that the welfare of the child is paramount;
  • The nature of the child's relationship with the father;
  • The nature and extent of the father's relationship with the child's mother and any siblings of the child;
  • Whether it would be contrary to Article 8 (Right to family life) of the European Convention on Human Rights to prevent disclosure of the birth of a child to a child's father;
  • The mother's wishes for the child;
  • The mother's right to confidentiality;
  • The avoidance of unnecessary delay.

4.2 Birth Fathers Who Acquire Parental Responsibility

Where a father acquires Parental Responsibility and the mother has already consented to adoption, and the child has been placed for adoption, (under Section 19, Adoption and Children Act 2002), it is considered that the father has also consented to the placement for adoption. However, the birth father can then withdraw his consent, provided he does so before an application has been made to court for an Adoption Order.

However, where the Local Authority wish to continue with the adoptive placement, a Placement Order application must be made. (Note: where the application is before the court, there is no obligation for the Local Authority to return the child to either parent).

(See: Court Reports in Placement Order Applications and in Adoption/Special Guardianship Guidance, Placement Order Application).

5. Consent and Competency

The Local Authority must be sure that each parent is 'competent' to give consent.

During the counselling sessions, care should be given to identifying whether the parent(s) are capable of giving consent, especially if there is evidence of learning disabilities, mental health issues, cultural, ethnic or faith issues or consent being given conditionally.

Where there is concern as to the parent's understanding, a capacity assessment must be undertaken. As part of this, an additional perspective should be sought from another professional - preferably someone who already knows the parent, such as an approved mental health social worker; a disabilities social worker; GP; midwife or health visitor; psychiatrist / psychologist or someone who can offer a faith or cultural perspective.

If there are concerns about competency at the point of referral or at an early stage in the process, then the Local Authority should not ask CAFCASS to witness consent until any such issues are resolved. Where a parent is under 18 years (i.e. considered to be a 'child' themselves within the meaning of the Children Act 1989), they can be considered to give valid consent if assessed as competent by the social worker.

The High Court in Re S (Child as parent: Adoption: Consent) [2017] EWHC 2729 (Fam) made clear that parental capacity to consent to a child being accommodated under s.20 Children Act 1989, does not equate to their capacity to consent to an adoption order in respect of the child - the capacity to consent is decision-specific.

The court set out the key information which is required to be understood by a parent regarding extra-familial adoption:

  1. Your child will have new legal parents, and will no longer be your son or daughter in law;
  2. Adoption is final, and non-reversible;
  3. During the process, other people (including social workers from the adoption agency) will be making decisions for the child, including who can see the child, and with whom the child will live;
  4. You may obtain legal advice if you wish before taking the decision;
  5. The child will live with a different family forever; you will (probably) not be able to choose the adopters;
  6. You will have no right to see your child or have contact with your child; it is highly likely that direct contact with your child will cease, and any indirect contact will be limited;
  7. The child may later trace you, but contact will only be re-established if the child wants this;
  8. There are generally two stages to adoption; the child being placed with another family for adoption, and being formally adopted;
  9. For a limited period of time you may change your mind; once placed for adoption, your right to change your mind is limited, and is lost when an adoption order is made.

When determining the competence of a parent in these circumstances, 'all practicable steps' must be taken to help them to make the decision, for example using simple language, visual aids or other means. A parent will be treated as understanding the information relevant to a decision if they are able to understand an explanation of it given to them in a way which is appropriate to their circumstances.

The decision to consent to adoption is significant and life-changing. Before exercising their decision-making, the parent should freely and fully understand the information set out on the consent forms, which should be conveyed and explained to them in an appropriate way; there is no expectation that the parent would be able to understand the precise language of the consent forms.

If there is any doubt about the competence of a parent to give consent to adoption or placement for adoption, the issue should be referred to a court.

Where it is considered that the parent is not capable of giving informed consent but the Local Authority decide to place the child for adoption following their counselling and assessment, legal advice should be taken regarding an application for a Placement Order.

(See also Court Reports in Placement Order Applications and in Adoption/Special Guardianship Guidance, Placement Order Application).

6. Decision of the Local Authority

Following counselling and if the parent(s) continue to express their wish for the child to be adopted, arrangements must be made for consideration by the Adoption Panel and subsequent ADM decision. In the first instance, as with all s20 admissions, presentation is required at the Threshold & Resources Panel (TARP) at the earliest opportunity, ideally before the child is born.

Once the Local Authority has made a decision that the plan for the child should be one of adoption, in addition to the Looked After Child record, an Adoption Case Record should be established. See Adoption Case Records Procedure.

In addition the social worker must inform the CAFCASS (see Letter 1: Advanced Notification of the child to be relinquished for adoption: Sections 19 and 20 Adoption Children Act 2002).

See also: Decision to Look After and Care Planning Procedure.

6.1 Child Who is Already Born

Where the child is already in the care of the parent(s), they should be accommodated under Section 20 (1989 Act) by arrangement with the parent(s).

The parent should sign their consent to the placement for adoption - having been provided with all relevant information in respect of adoption, contact and support for them and their family (see Section 3.3, Counselling About Adoption).

A referral to the CCA Family Finding Team should be made as soon as possible so that efforts can be made to identify an appropriate placement could be an Early Permanence, concurrency or Fostering for Adoption placement (see Fostering for Adoption and Concurrent Planning Procedure).

When the matter has been presented to the Adoption Panel and agreed by the Agency Decision Maker and CAFCASS have completed their role, an adoptive placement should be sought (see Section 8, Adoption Panel).

6.1.1 Accommodation of the Child

Following Accommodation of the child, the social worker should progress the matter as with any other child who becomes looked after:

  • Update ICS with the details of the placement and complete Form SOC 408, sending it to the Access to Resources Team (ART). They forward the information to PQA-LAC to trigger arrangements for the initial Looked After Child Review. Every effort will be made for this to be held early to help expedite planning;
  • Complete a Care Plan for the child;
  • Commence the child's Permanence Report (for Adoption Panel);
  • Progress a Looked After Medical Assessment. The Medical Advisor will consider this alongside the CoramBAAF medical assessment forms M and B together with CoramBAAF PH form (completed by parent(s));
  • Ensure the birth is registered and a birth certificate is obtained: this can be undertaken by the parent;
  • Visit the child's placement in accordance with the regulations and other requirements (see Social Work Visits to Looked After Children Procedure);
  • Maintain contact with the parent(s) and continue with counselling about adoption;
  • Arrange and support contact arrangements with the child as required;
  • Ensure that the child's Life Story Book is commenced and progressed and that the parents and foster carer are involved in this as appropriate;
  • After 6 weeks, ensure CAFCASS obtains parent(s) consent to place the child for adoption and advance placement to adopt;
  • Discuss with the parent(s) their engagement within the adoption process and any wish to disengage from it.

In many instances the parent(s) will be completely disengaged at an early stage and there might therefore be an issue of continuing engagement to undertake necessary tasks, e.g. obtaining a birth certificate, completing consent forms, etc.

See ADCS, Good Practice Guidance for Adoption Agencies and Cafcass: Children Relinquished for Adoption - Annex 5 'Statement That I Do Not Wish to be Notified of the Application for an Adoption Order for my Child - Section 20(4) Adoption and Children Act 2002' Proforma.

6.1.2 Preparing the Child

For older children, age-appropriate work should begin to help prepare them for the changes that will progress them to their permanent placement. The nature and style of this work will vary greatly on the child and their age, understanding and capacity and is likely to be a mixture of play, counselling and 'discussion'.

In all circumstances there would normally be a final 'goodbye' contact with their parent(s) where the parent(s) agree to this.

6.2 Pre-Birth Child

Many children who are relinquished will come as a pre-birth request from the mother. Counselling processes / information gathering processes with the mother and, where appropriate and known, the putative father must be undertaken promptly.

The unborn child should be included in the tracking process outlined in the Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Pre-Birth Protocol Procedure.

Early permanence planning is essential. This could be through an Early Permanence placement via either a foster to adopt or concurrency placement, if assessed as appropriate, or an initial request for a placement made, together with planning a schedule for Adoption Panel. Any decision to seek a care plan and placement for Early Permanence will still require ADM approval.

Note however that formal consent by the mother for an adoption placement and advance consent to adopt cannot be given until the child is 6 weeks old.

6.2.1 Child's Birth and Discharge from the Maternity Team

At the point of the child's birth, the mother can decide to care for the child or request separation. However, greater involvement at this stage by the mother may make it more difficult to separate.

The social worker should seek to meet with the mother as soon as reasonably possible, checking with maternity staff that this is appropriate. The focus should be on the mother's welfare; reflecting on the plan for relinquishing the new-born child and exploring how the mother / father (if appropriate) want to deal with this stage of the process. It should also include advice / information, perhaps particularly around separation, naming the child and arrangements for registering the birth.

The parent(s) can provide as much or as little for the child as they feel they want to at this very initial stage and should be encouraged / supported - but not pressured - to have contact with the child. Unless there are health issues for the child requiring the child to remain in the maternity Team, discharge is likely to be after 24 hours and should be to the identified foster carer.

It should also be considered that this is the point at which the child's Life Story Book starts, and provides an opportunity to collate detail and (with permission) photos for the child's Life Story Book.

At the time of birth, the social worker should:

  • Provide the maternity Team with the foster carer's details and the foster carer's GP details;
  • Provide the CoramBAAF medical Forms M and B for completion by the paediatrician;
  • Provide the Mother's Consent Form (CoramBAAF PH) consenting to the completion of the above M and B Forms.

Note: these forms should be completed before the child's discharge, so as to avoid unnecessary delay later.

6.2.2 Accommodation of the child

Following discharge from hospital, the practitioner should progress the matter as with any other child who becomes looked after (see Section 6.1.1, Accommodation of the child).

The social worker must be clear with parents that:

  • The parent or guardian retains full Parental Responsibility until:
    • They give their consent after the child reaches the age of 6 weeks;
    • A Placement Order is made; or
    • An Adoption Order is made.
  • The parent or guardian may only have contact with the child by agreement with the agency or by order of the court;
  • Their rights in the event that the parent or guardian asks for the child to be returned (see Section 7, If Parent(s) Withdraw Consent or Change Their Plans);
  • Once the child is 6 weeks old, the local authority will seek to arrange for them to give their formal consent to the child being placed for adoption.

Subject to the agreement being signed, the social worker may now place the child. With parent(s) agreement, they should maintain contact between the child and the parent(s) and ascertain when the child reaches the age of 6 weeks, whether the parent(s) are prepared to consent to:

  • A placement of the child for adoption under Section 19 (2002 Act) with a prospective adopter identified in the Consent, or with any prospective adopter who may be chosen by the local authority; or
  • A placement of the child for an adoption can proceed. If they are not, and they request that the child be returned to them, the local authority must comply with that request unless there are grounds for seeking a Placement Order, or instituting other proceedings.

7. If Parent(s) Withdraw Consent or Change Their Plans

7.1 Change of Plan

Where the child is Accommodated under Section 20 (Children Act 1989) and is less than 6 weeks old and the parent changes their mind, a request for the child to be returned to the parent's care must be responded to.

Nevertheless, an evaluation of the circumstances should be undertaken and include any factors that may require a formal child protection risk assessment.

Following such an assessment, and if the social worker, in discussion with their line manager, identifies that the child's welfare and best interests would not be met by a return to the parent / guardian's care, legal advice should be sought regarding the possibility of applying for an Emergency Protection Order, Care Order, Placement Order or Adoption Order.

If the child has been Accommodated for more than 20 days then the return decision should be undertaken promptly by the Head of Service; if less than 20 days, then this decision can be undertaken by the social worker's line manager in discussion with their District Safeguarding/Service Manager.

In all circumstances, the decision for any child to return home should be made on the basis that they are safeguarded and their welfare and best interests will be promoted. This should take into account the support that can be provided by Children's Services and its partner agencies.

See also Ceasing to Look After a Child Procedure, Relinquished Children.

Note: Where the parent / guardian withdraws their consent to adoption it should not be assumed that the threshold criteria under section 31(2) will be satisfied and each case needs to be considered on its own facts. (See Re A O (care proceedings) 2016 EWFC 36).

7.2 Withdrawal of Consent

The parent(s) can withdraw their consent to the child's placement for adoption at any stage prior to the prospective adopters issuing an adoption application in relation to the child, either by using the 'Withdrawal of Consent Sections 19 and 20 of the Adoption and Children Act 2002' form or by written notice given to the Adoption Agency.

On receiving the Notice of Withdrawal, the Local Authority will lose the authority to place and there should be an immediate review of the child's plan for adoption. The social worker must obtain agreement for legal advice from LGSS Law as the Local Authority may decide to apply for a Placement Order.

Where the child is not yet placed with adoptive applicants - and the parent or guardian informs the Local Authority that they wish the child to be returned to their care, the child should be returned to the parent(s) within 7 days, unless the Local Authority has either made an application for a Placement Order or a decision is made to apply for a Placement Order. Where the child is placed for adoption - and the parent requests the return of the child, the child should be returned to the parents within 14 days, beginning with the day on which the notice was given, unless the Authority has either made an application for a placement or a decision is made to apply for a Placement Order.

8. Adoption Panel

Once consent has been signed the practitioner should proceed to the Adoption Panel (see Adoption Panel Procedure) after completing the child's Permanency Report and providing the range of required document.

9. CAFCASS - Including Relevant Forms

Once the Adoption and Permanence Panel and Agency Decision Maker have confirmed the plan for the child to be adoption, notification must be urgently sent to CAFCASS.

It is usual practice for the Local Authority to give advance notification to CAFCASS and confirm, upon the birth of the baby, that adoption remains the plan. The law allows a parent to give consent for adoption ahead of these processes - although the child must be 6 weeks of age. (This might be the case if a parent is anxious to give consent at the point of the child being 6 weeks of age, or the Local Authority are satisfied that every effort has been made with respect to the counselling of the parent who wishes to give consent, and to delay for an Adoption Panel meeting might then lead to difficulties and, as a result, undue delay for the child's plan).

The principal role of CAFCASS is to ensure that consent to place for adoption (Section 19) and advance consent for an Adoption Order (Section 20) has been made unconditionally and with a full understanding of all that this means in terms of those sections, of adoption and all its implications.

In doing so, it is helpful for the Schedule 2 (Adoption Agency Regulations) report to be sent with the formal request to CAFCASS.

It is not however, the role of CAFCASS to challenge birth parents about their decision to relinquish the child, (as long as they are competent) or the Local Authority / Adoption Agency 's decisions in respect of birth fathers without Parental Responsibility, involvement of extended family etc.

9.1 Notification to CAFCASS

The following needs to be sent to CAFCASS:

9.2 Consent Forms to be completed and signed by the parent(s)/guardian:

The following consent forms need to be completed by the parent(s), as appropriate, following counselling and witnessed by a CAFCASS Officer:

A100: Consent form to placement for adoption with any prospective adopters chosen by the Adoption Agency - under Section 19 (Adoption and Children 2002 Act)

A101: Consent form to the placement of adoption with identified prospective adopter(s) - under Section 19 (Adoption and Children 2002 Act)

A102: Consent form to the placement of adoption with identified prospective carers and, if the placement breaks down, with any prospective adopters chosen by the Adoption Agency - under Section 19 (Adoption and Children 2002 Act)

A103: Advance consent to adoption - Section 20 (Adoption and Children Act 2002)

A104: Consent to Adoption (Adoption and Children Act 2002)

A106: Withdrawal of Consent to Sections 19 and 20 (Adoption and Children Act 2002)

9.3 CAFCASS Outcome/Response

  • Consent to place for adoption (Section 19): consent has been unconditionally and properly given with full knowledge and comprehension of adoption and the process;
  • Consent to place for adoption (Section 19) and Advance consent to the making of an adoption order (Section 20): consent has been unconditionally and properly given to both placement and Adoption Order with full knowledge and comprehension of adoption and the process.

    The Local Authority should receive the following letter from the Cafcass Officer: Relinquished child: Countersigning Consent Forms (Letter 3).


  • Where advance consent to the making of an Adoption Order (Section 20) this letter is amended to reflect this);
  • Where the parent(s) has identified and given notice that they do not wish to be notified when an application for an Adoption Order is made, Section 20(4) Adoption and Children Act) the letter should also acknowledge this and attach a 'Statement' to this effect.

(See Annex 5: Statement That I Do Not Wish to be Notified of the Application for an Adoption Order for my child).